10 Reasons Why You Should Always Flirt With Women

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Flirting is fun. Flirting is good. It is invigorating. It is good for you and your women will like it most especially if you know when and how to go about it without being intrusive or offensive.

Don’t be put off if you think you don’t know how to flirt as a guy. This is because it can be learned and there are many resources out there that will help you do it and do it well.

Men and women flirt with each other but in this piece I am going to assume I am only talking to guys. I will be giving guys some of the reasons why I think they should now get ready to flirt with indiscriminately with women.

Yes, I said it. Although they might not want to easily admit it, all women, and I mean all women, love and enjoy when you flirt with them and I will now tell you why.

Listen.

Flirting is fun
First and foremost, flirting is fun and that’s the reason why you even engage in it. This is simply because as a form of mutual entertainment and enjoyment it because a way for both parties involved to entertain themselves with their antics and style.

Choice of partner
Flirting allows you to choose the right partner. This is because it is only those ladies who are interested in you that will flirt back with you. Those who are not interested will simply lose out through natural elimination process. It is as simple as that.

A good conversationalist
Flirting gives you opportunity to become a good conversationalist with verbal banter and if you get it right, soon she will be laughing and once a woman is truly laughing with you, brother you are there! Remember, women love good conversation.

Makes a lady feel special
Flirting makes the woman feel great. It makes her feel wanted. It makes her feel attractive. It makes her feel special because it makes her feel like a woman when she becomes the center of your attention.

Confidence
Flirting shows you are a man of confidence. Confidence is attractive to both men and women, mostly women because it is usually amongst the things they say they want in their men. Your confidence shows you are so sure of yourself and flirting is one way to exhibit this trait.

Cures low self esteem
Yes. The more confident you become the less shyness or low self esteem you develop. Flirting heals shyness by removing low self esteem because it boosts your sense of worth when you realize that women suddenly seem to like you – which means, you are now a hot cake, sort of.

Not demanding
You don’t have to have or do so much before you can flirt with a woman. Sometimes, just your smile, your eyes and your swag will be enough for you to impress her. You won’t even have to buy her expensive things or take her to expensive dinners. Get your moves right and everything will just start falling into place.

Adventure
Flirting is a form of adventure. This is because it creates sexual tension from the constant maybe-he-likes-me-maybe-he-doesn't feeling it often generates. As both parties become aware of what is happening, new discoveries are bound to occur.

You might suddenly find out that the quiet girl whom you thought never liked you was only pretending she didn't  You will find out that some people are even more daring than you thought. Such revelations like this add to the fun.

Excuse to Touch
Flirting gives you an excuse to touch a woman. A report once said that people, just like so many animals, love to be touched. Now touching a woman might be risky or inappropriate because it might be misread but under the premises of flirting, you can touch a woman and she will subsequently associate that "feel good" feelings of animals liking to be touched with you.

It can lead to sex
Of course, that’s the point of the whole thing. Flirting can lead to sex because it brings about arousal. Flirting is actually a kind of foreplay with all the dance and ritual before the main course. It is like sex without the pressure of the real thing and again since it involves mental sex and since our brain is often said to be the our real sex organ, it means that flirting can stimulate the brain first before any other part of the body. No wonder, it is fun.

Believe me when I tell you that flirting works on women. 

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